Yesterday I was at my daughter's school around 9:30 to drop off something the little one forgot at home. I was in the office waiting for her to be called down when I saw my oldest daughter's teacher come into the office to do some photocopying. Now, I know how much teachers hate to be ambushed by parents - but I did it anyways. I said, "Excuse me Ms. K, I am M1's mom and I just want one minute to ... (and I could almost see her 'Really? Now?' look forming on her face) ...let you know what a great year M1 had in grade 6. And to thank you for being an amazing teacher."
I told her that when my girls leave for school I make sure they leave happy to start their day & I only want them to return happy with stories to tell me. M1 has come home with many stories of her class, friends, and teacher. I told her how much I appreciate her teaching M1 not only what was in the curriculum, but also about being respectful, being age appropriate, talking about friendships/relationships, and just going beyond what is required in the textbooks. Even when M1 comes home & has had "The worst day ever!" she always has something to tell me that makes us laugh or smile. Ms. K literally took my hand and thanked me. She told me she was having a difficult year personally and hearing that meant so much to her. She said I was going to make her cry - I could see her tearing up & I warned her not to, otherwise I would be bawling too!
It made me think that if I didn't run into her yesterday would I have taken the time to leave her a message or write her a note? Would it have had the same effect? Maybe, maybe not. I'm just glad I did say something to her. People generally rant above negative experiences way more than great ones. Everyone knows what an amazing feeling it is to receive a compliment, positive feedback, or just a pat on the back. But you know what? It feels pretty good to be the one giving out the compliment too.
Y.C.
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