Friday, November 13, 2015

Thoughts On Religion

Let's see....what have I been doing over the last month? Well, aside from my boring grocery shopping, menu planning, & cooking, the 3Ms are keeping us busy with their dance schedule.   Competition season is approaching & M1 & M2 have started extra choreography for their solos, duets, & trios.  And I started going to church.

M2 was invited to Sunday school by a friend this past May. I went with M2 & M3 a few times in May & June & then the program took a summer hiatus.  The program resumed in September & we've been going since then. 

During the children's Sunday school there is an English service, which by the attendance is probably geared for the 'youths'.  I have been attending this service for a couple of months.  

A wise person recently told me that she is not religious but she believes in God & believes there is power in prayer.   I didn't understand how that could be.  She explained that churches/pastors/clergy preach an interpretation of God's word.  When she says she is 'not religious' she means she doesn't necessarily follow all the teachings of her church.  But she does believe in God & the power He has to influence everything around us.  She said to me that her Bible, her God, teaches her to be kind, & caring, & loving to everyone.  Be grateful & thankful.  Be tolerant & do not judge.  So easy to say, but so difficult to practice everyday.  

This wise lady also told me a true story of the Dalai Lama. He was approached at a religious conference he was a speaker at and asked (and I'm paraphrasing here): "What is the best/truest religion?".   The person was probably expecting an answer along the lines of Buddism as that is what the Dalai Lama practices.  Instead the Dalai Lama answered: ' It is the religion that brings you closest to God'.

I've always believed that religion & faith are very personal. It is journey that no one can really plan for you & sometimes even difficult to explain or talk about.  It is a journey between you & your God.  Sure, there may be family, friends, clergy, that can guide you along the way, inspire you, cheer you on; but in the end it is your own walk along the beach, your own marathon to run, your own mountain to climb.

YC


Menu For Week Oct 5

This was written over a month ago.  I am just posting it today....

Monday
Breakfast - Cereal
Lunch - Fried Rice
Dinner - Chicken Drums & Homemade Chinese BBQ Pork 

Tuesday
Breakfast - Eggo & Yogurt
Lunch - McCain's Pizza
Dinner - Steamed Fish & Chinese Ribs

Wednesday
Breakfast - Croissants
Lunch - Ham & Cheese Sandwich
Dinner - Steamed Pork, Squash, Broccoli & Tofu Blocks

Thursday
Breakfast - Egg, Ham & Cheese Biscuit Sandwiches
Lunch - Instant Noodles
Dinner - Frozen Lasagna, Garlic Bread & Cesear Salad

Friday
Breakfast -
Lunch -
Dinner -

After 4 weeks of this exercise I realize that I'm quite a boring shopper & eater.  Our shopping lists & menus look pretty much the same every week.  So I think it's time to move on to my next project...

YC

Tuesday, October 6, 2015

Shopping List & Menu For Week Of Sep 28

Shopping List
Grapes
Avocado
Cantaloupe
Apples
Oranges
Bananas
Broccoli
Caesar Salad
Eggs
Cheese
Ham
6 Chicken Drums
Pork Ribs
1 whole Fresh Fish

Monday
Breakfast- Egg, Avocado & Cheese wrap
Lunch - pizza (My Little Pizzeria)
Dinner - Leftover Chinese BBQ

Tuesday
Breakfast - Fresh bread
Lunch - McCain's pizza
Snack - Pasta salad
Dinner - Chinese ribs & broccoli

Wednesday
Breakfast - Ham & egg wraps
Lunch - Chicken noodle soup
Snack - Pasta salad
Dinner - Steam chicken & fish

Thursday
Breakfast - Cereal
Lunch - Fried rice
Dinner - Spaghetti & meatballs 

Friday 
Breakfast - Sausages & biscuits
Lunch - Lasagna
Dinner - Chinese sausage (lap cheung), Steamed pork & eggs


Thursday, October 1, 2015

So How Would You Have Responded?

Yesterday M2's friend's mom WHATSAPP'd me a link and said 'We plan to skip school tomorrow'.  The link was for a parent's group that organizes protests & rallies against the new Health Education curriculum (sex-ed).  The group called for parents to keep their children at home from school for one day to protest against the new curriculum. Then she followed up inviting M2 over to her house if we were planning to keep our kids home too.  Another mom who was in this chat group chimed in and said she was thinking about keeping her daughter home too and said she was 'wondering how other parents think of this protest'.

Honestly, I don't have a strong opinion regarding the new Health curriculum - either for or against it.  Perhaps I am naive?  I feel that the curriculum is an outline & I believe the teachers will teach according to the cues given by the students.  At least this is what I've been told by the teachers I have asked to gain clarification on this matter.  I have also had discussions with my two older children about this & I trust that if something discussed in class is strange, confusing, or they just want to talk more about it, I will be the first person they come to.  We frequently talk about all aspects of school - lessons, teachers, friends, etc... Education these days do not stop at the end of a school day.  I believe education is a partnership between both the school, teacher, home & the community.  I really don't see the point, or effectiveness, of keeping your child at home to protest.   Would it not be more beneficial to speak with the teacher to discuss how & what exactly parts of the curriculum is to be covered in class?

So how did I respond to the other parent?  Of course I did what I usually do when I am uncomfortable sharing my views with acquaintances - I just ignore and do not respond at all.

Friday, September 25, 2015

Shopping List & Menu For Week Of Sept 21

Shopping List
3 Pillsbury Biscuit Rolls
10 Tortilla Wraps
1 Cored Pineapple
Grapes
Pears
Apples
Oranges
Bananas
2 dozen Eggs
Milk
5 pkg Frozen Beef/Chicken Pies (enough for 6 lunches)
Corn On The Cob
3 Small Parsnips
1 Large Sweet Potato
5 Red Potato
1 Zucchini
Grape Tomatoes
Garlic
Onions
Whole Chicken
Shrimp

Monday
Breakfast - sausages (bought on sale 2 weeks ago) & store-bought marble cake (from cousins)
Lunch - Frozen Beef Pies (on sale this week - bought enough for 5 more lunches)
Snack - Homemade Banana Chocolate Chip Mini Muffins & Homemade Cornbread
Dinner - Roast Chicken, Broccoli

Tuesday
Breakfast - Ham, Banana Chocolate Chip Mini Muffins & Cornbread
Lunch - Chicken Fried Rice
Snack - Noodles (from my lunch) & Chicken Quesidillas
Dinner - Ribs, Cesear Salad

Wednesday
Breakfast - Cheese Quesidilla & Sausages
Lunch - Man & Cheese
Snack - Root Vegetable Soup
Dinner - Noodle Soup (made by Uncle K)

Thursday
Breakfast - Pillsbury Biscuits & Cheese
Lunch - Left-Over Noodles from dinner
Snack - no snack b/c early dinner
Dinner - Potato Salad, Soy Sauce Chicken Wings, Butternut Squash & Broccoli

Friday
Breakfast - Paratha
Lunch - Chicken & Rice from last night
Snack - Potato
Dinner - Steamed Eggs & Curry (from uncle P)





Recipes Used Week Of Sept 21st

Here are 3 recipes I used this week.  The muffin & cornbread ones I use often & pretty much use as is.   The Autumn soup one is a first time for me - I made my chicken stock with the leftover bones of the roast chicken from Monday night's dinner & just added salt & a couple of bay leaves.

http://www.tasteofhome.com/recipes/roasted-autumn-vegetable-soup?trkid=zfb915

http://allrecipes.com/recipe/230880/easy-banana-muffins/?event8=1&prop24=SR_Title&e11=banana%20muffins&e8=Quick%20Search&event10=1&e7=Recipe&soid=sr_results_p1i8

http://allrecipes.com/recipe/17891/golden-sweet-cornbread/

Friday, September 18, 2015

Easy Potato Salad & Pasta Salad Recipe

This is part 2 to today's earlier post 'Shopping List & Menu For Week Of Sept 14'.  Here are two quick & easy salad recipes that I made this week which can be made in bulk & eaten over a few days - just don't toss in dressing/mayo until you are ready to eat.  These are my own creations, nothing fancy - most of the ingredients I always have on hand in my pantry.

Pasta Salad Ingredients:
3 cups Rotini Pasta
3 Slices Black Forest Ham - julienned
1/2 Bell Pepper - diced or julienned
Dry Oregano To Taste
Black Pepper To Taste
Dry Basil To Taste
Olive Oil
Balsamic Vinegar
KRAFT Ranch Dressing

Potato Salad Ingredients:
5 Red Potatoes
3 Slices Black Forest Ham - cut bite sized
3 Boiled Eggs - chopped
Fresh Dill To Taste
Dry Mustard To Taste
Black Pepper To Taste
Lemon Juice To Taste
PC Olive Oil Mayonaise

Toss all the ingredients, except KRAFT Ranch Dressing for pasta salad & PC Olive Oil Mayonaise for potato salad, together & leave in tightly covered container in fridge.  We ate as a side or snack over 3 days, only adding the dressing to the amount we would eat at a time.  This way my kids could add as little (for M2) or as much (for M1) as they like. Likewise, the herbs/spices in the ingredient list can be as much or even omitted to suit your family's preference.